Wednesday, January 9, 2008

i am woman, hear me roar

woman and man

i was chatting with my mother this evening, when the movie Pete's Dragon came up. for those who don't know, its an old disney film about an orphaned boys who finds a friend in a dragon named Pete, and a home with a family of lighthouse keepers. the soundtrack happens to be excellent, with cheerful lyrics such as "it's not easy to share somebody's dream, it gets easy when you work as a team," and "i'll be your candle on the water." i commented that the lead female actress, helen reddy, had a beautiful voice. my mother, whom is a surprising wealth of all music-related trivia, informed me of another song that ms. reddy, happens to be known for , i am woman. 

just yesterday, in response to a question i was asked about my being, i felt compelled to respond with the all meaningful and blanket statement of "i am woman." in my thinking, the statement carries an intense amount of power, and an intense amount of meaning. over the years, i suppose we all go through phases where we question our identity and try to "find" ourself. for a variety of reasons, this past year and these past few months in particular, have caused me to recognize, embrace, and honor my womanhood more than ever. indeed, my identity as a woman has become precious to me, and is something i am proud to define myself by. 

the song by ms. reddy is from another time, but i believe the sentiment remains true. as i come to understand my own femininity, i am realizing the there is a unity among women that transcends age, and time. as an individual that also defines herself as an "Obie," i feel compelled to state that my reference to the unity among women extends to anyone who identifies as a woman, and to affirm that 'my people' are those that truly love women...

i am woman, hear me roar
in number too big to ignore
and i know too much to go back an' pretend
'cause i've heard it all before
and i've been down there on the floor
no one's ever gonna keep me down again
oh yes i am wise
but its wisdom born of pain
yes, i've paid the price
but look how much i gained
if i have to, i can do anything
i am strong (strong)
i am invincible (invincible)
i am woman
you can bend but never break me
'cause it only serves to make me
more determined to achieve my final goal
and i come back even stronger
not a novice any longer
'cause you've deepened the convictions in my soul
i am woman watch me grow
see me standing toe to toe
as i spread my lovin' arms across the land
but i'm still an embryo
with a long way to go
until i make my brother understand
oh yes i am wise
buts its wisdom born of pain
yes, i've paid the price
but look how much i gained
if i have to i can face anything
i am strong (strong)
i am invincible (invincible)
i am woman
oh, i am woman
i am invincible
i am strong
                     - helen reddy, I AM WOMAN

1 comment:

prometheus said...

I would be curious to know what spurred the renewal of feminine identity. It seems we have become more "enlightened" than we can handle--rejecting ritual and tradition out of hand in favor of empirics and rationality. And yet our lust for hyper-rational identity has effectively cleansed us of our rites of passage, within which we find our most profound unity which essence beyond the self. Where are the rituals of manhood for the grown-up boys crying to be inducted into the society of men? How do the girls find the entry point into womanhood and femininity without ties to symbol that pervade true "culture"? In our race to live life in unblinking literalness, what have we killed by our sacrifices of myth and metaphor?